Social & Emotional Milestones
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What Is The Next Milestone For Babies
The first year of life is an amazing time for babies. They usually triple their birth weight and are about 28-32 inches tall by their first birthday. The once dependent baby who relied on reflexes to act and respond has become more independent and can move at will. Rolling over, sitting up, crawling, picking up objects, and standing are usually mastered in the first year. They may even be taking a few steps on their own. Babies can now use gestures, different cries, and some simple words to communicate their wants and needs. They have developed a relationship with their parents and caretakers and engage in purposeful two-way interactions. They may start to show displeasure by having mild meltdowns if frustrated. The next stage is toddlerhood, where babies further develop their walking, talking, and thinking.
How Much Milk Baby Needs
Babies eat a lot during those first few weeks at least eight to 12 times in a 24-hour period. Chalk it up to her tiny tummy size and the incredible growth, both physical and mental, that shes undergoing these first weeks and months.
Since your breasts and baby dont come with a built-in meter, it can be difficult to gauge if and when your babys had enough to eat. But there are a few clues: If your baby seems happy, her weight gain is appropriate for her age and shes making enough dirty diapers , shes probably getting enough.
That said, breastfeeding doesnt always come naturally and there are plenty of feeding tricks to master and issues to solve in these first few weeks, from the breastfeeding latch to mastitis and other common breastfeeding problems. Need more help? Check these breastfeeding 101s along with some bottle-feeding basics.
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Social And Emotional Development
Even shy and sleepy babies take an interest in your voice and face. A big section of the brain is devoted to understanding and remembering faces, and a large part of our social behaviour is based on how we ‘read’ other people’s faces. Looking into someone’s eyes is a necessity for ‘falling in love’, so show your baby your face and talk to them soothingly right from the start. Don’t feel rejected if they turn away tiny babies often get tired when they interact.Newborns:
- Don’t understand what is happening to them, or realise they are a separate person
- Don’t know who is feeding them, or who helps them when they cry
- Cry when they are hungry or tired, but don’t know they are being cared for
- Can’t cry ‘for attention’ or to ‘get at’ their parents – a newborn is not capable of responding to you with any conscious purpose
- Can feel, but not think
- Smile by five to seven weeks
- Laugh out loud by three months.
When To Be Concerned About Newborn Development
See your child and family health nurse or GP if you have any concerns or notice that your one-month-old:
- is crying a lot and this is worrying you
- isnt feeding well
- is very tired or sleeps a lot more than expected for this age that is, more than around 16 hours a day
- isnt moving arms or legs
- isnt responding to bright light or seeing things for example, isnt following your face with her eyes
- isnt making sounds like gurgling
- isnt hearing things for example, isnt startling to loud sounds or turning her head towards sounds
- isnt sleeping well.
You should also see your child and family health nurse or GP if you or your partner experiences the signs of postnatal depression in women or postnatal depression in men. Symptoms of postnatal depression include feeling sad and crying for no obvious reason, feeling irritable, having difficulty coping and feeling very anxious.
Children grow and develop at different speeds. If youre worried about whether your childs development is normal, it might help to know that normal varies a lot. But if you still feel that something isnt quite right, see your child and family health nurse or GP.
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What Your Baby Does On The First Day
Many parents are surprised to see how alert a newborn really is. Right after birth, a newborn’s eyes are open quite a bit and babies spend a lot of time studying faces especially their parents’. Your baby may turn or react to the sound of your voices. Your baby is using all of the senses, including smell and touch, to further identify and become attached to you.
Your newborn will cry, sleep, and at times will look directly into your eyes. Although the vision is blurry, your baby can best see something that is about 8 to 15 inches away. Your baby will grab onto your finger if you place it in his or her palm. And of course, your baby will want to eat.
After initially being very awake, most newborns get sleepy for about the next 24 hours. It’s important to wake them to feed every 2 to 3 hours so they get used to the process and start eating well. If a mother is breastfeeding, this is also the best way to encourage her milk to come in.
How Long Are Babies In Newborn Clothes
When buying clothes you may have asked yourself, How long are babies in newborn clothes? With so many adorable newborn clothes on the market it can be difficult to make decisions on which outfits to buy and which to skip. It comes down to the weight if your baby weighs 8lbs or less they will probably outgrow their newborn clothes within a month. For this reason, it is preferable to purchase clothing within the 3-6 months range of sizes. If your baby weighed more than 8lbs at birth they will grow out of their newborn clothing within a few days.
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Food And Nutrition Milestones At 2 Months
What mealtimes look like at 2 months.
- All of the nutrition your baby needs can be found in breastmilk.
- Shell easily suck and swallow during feeding.
- Her tongue will move back and forward to suck.
- Shell latch onto her mothers nipple or a bottle.
Tips for parents
- You should see signs of hunger about 8 to 12 times in 24 hours. Newborn babies need to eat a lot because theyre growing rapidly. They double their birth weight in the first six months of life, or before.
Who Is An Infant
A child is called an infant or baby from birth to 12 months . Therefore, a newborn could also be called an infant or a baby.
Infancy is an exciting period for parents since it is characterized by the babys rapid physical growth. It is also normal for parents, especially first-time parents, to be anxious during this phase. You may ensure that an infant grows healthily through timely feeding, emotional bonding, and stimulating the babys development through play and activities.
The baby must be exclusively breastfed for the first six months . Babies older than six months who can sit without support in a high chair can be introduced to solid food . Pureed vegetables and baby cereals make for ideal first foods for babies.
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Social And Emotional Milestones At 2 Months
Some of the ways youll see your little one learning to connect with the people around her at 2 months.
- Can self-soothe by sucking on her hand.
- Starting to smile at others.
- Attempting to look at her parents.
Tips for parents
- Engage in skin-to-skin contact. Your warmth will help soothe her.
- Hold your baby close to your face and make eye contact. This will help your little one learn your features.
Newborn Stage: Developmental Milestones
Childrens development is categorized into social, language, and motor development categories. Here are some things your newborn may start doing between birth and 3 months old:
- Briefly lifting his head while on his stomach
- Moving his arms and legs
- Recognizing familiar faces and voices
- Focusing on and following moving objects
- Bringing his hands together and to his mouth
- Grasping onto things
- Making cooing and other noises besides crying
- Smiling and laughing
- Banging, dropping, and throwing objects
- Walking or trying to walk
- Saying simple words
Please remember that children develop at their own pace. If youre worried about your childs development, talk to your pediatrician. There are also other things you can do to help your babys development, such as talking and reading to your baby, getting on the floor to play with her, keeping your house safe once she starts moving, and giving her plenty of attention and love.
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What Your Newborn Looks Like
You probably have visions of a robust bouncing baby, but in reality many newborns are tiny, wet creatures when they first arrive. Often their heads are slightly pointed as a result of passing through the birth canal. This is only temporary the head will take on a rounded look within a few days. It may surprise you that a newborn’s head is so big compared with the rest of the body.
Your baby also may look scrunched up since the legs and arms have been kept bent at the knees and elbows while in the womb. After months of growing in ever-tightening close quarters, this is perfectly normal. The limbs will straighten out as your baby grows.
Look at your baby’s tiny fingers and toes. You’ll notice the paper-thin and sometimes long nails.
Your baby’s skin may look somewhat red, pink, or purple at first. Some babies are born with a white coating called vernix caseosa, which protects their skin from the constant exposure to amniotic fluid in the womb. The vernix is washed off with the baby’s first bath. Other babies are born very wrinkled. And some, especially premature babies, have a soft, furry appearance because of lanugo, a fine hair that develops while in the womb. Lanugo usually comes off after a week or two.
Rashes, blotches, or tiny white spots also are common on newborns. These usually clear up over the first few days or weeks after birth. The doctor will examine your baby within the first 1224 hours of birth and make sure that any rashes or spots are normal.
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Things To Do With Your 1
You may think your itty-bitty baby cant do much of anything, let alone play…but youre in for a happy surprise. Even the newest newbie can bond with the most special person in their world you.
While youre enjoying this one-on-one time, shell learn how to identify you by sight and sound at the same time youre helping her to develop motor and cognitive skills.
All of the following activities cater to your 1-month-old babys blurry vision and stimulate her social, visual and emotional development as well as listening skills.
Choose a time when your baby isn’t hungry, tired or sporting a wet diaper, and stop if she keeps turning her head away .
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How To Support Your Babys Development
Your babyâs pediatrician will be able to give you lots of personalized advice, but these are some things you can try:
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Skin-to-skin contact. This is when your naked baby is placed against your uncovered chest. Itâs good to practice this âkangaroo careâ from right after your baby is born and during his first few months. The benefits of skin-to-skin contact include improved bonding between you and your baby, and helping to regulate his breathing and heart rate.
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Tummy time. Put your baby on his tummy on the floor for a short time each day to help strengthen his neck and shoulders, as you closely supervise. Read more about tummy time.
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Tracking practice. As your babyâs vision develops, heâll slowly become better at following moving objects with his eyes. To help him practice, try moving an object â like a rattle â slowly in front of him.
Baby Development: 10 To 12 Months
The last development stage in babyâs first year is quite a transition. They arenât an infant anymore, and they might look and act more like a toddler. But they are still a baby in many ways. They are learning to:
- Begin feeding herself. Babies at this developmental stage master the âpincer graspâ — meaning they can hold small objects such as O-shaped cereal between their thumb and forefinger.
- Cruise, or move around the room on their feet while holding onto the furniture.
- Say one or two words, and “Mama” and “Dada” become specific name for parents. The average is about three spoken words by the first birthday, but the range on this is enormous.
- Point at objects they want in order to get your attention.
- Begin âpretend playâ by copying you or using objects correctly, such as pretending to talk on the phone.
- Take their first steps. This usually happens right around one year, but it can vary greatly.
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Ways To Play And Interact With Your Baby
- Singing to your baby: they love the sound of your voice , so sing a song, nursery rhyme or just freestyle and make your own songs up.
- Talking to your baby: describe the things around you, recite a nursery rhyme or read a book. It doesn’t really matter what you talk about â it all helps with their communication skills.
- Clapping: take turns clapping your hands and their hands together. Clapping is actually a pretty big milestone once they can do it themselves. It requires a fair amount of muscle control, fine motor skills and hand-eye co-ordination!
- Dancing: put some music on and dance with your baby in your arms. Most babies love the gentle rocking motion and being so close to you. This is great for bonding with your baby and their emotional development.
- Play with toys: encourage your baby to reach for, push and pull their toys. This is a simple way to stimulate your baby and improve their co-ordination.